Tldr: Well-fitting attire makes an excellent first impression. Wearing red enhances attraction; blue conveys trustworthiness. Casual clothes like denim make you seem approachable and friendly.
A 2024 survey on first impressions yielded some unexpected and thought-provoking results. According to 85% of those surveyed, their first impression of someone is more positive when they smell good. 69% said they formed an opinion of someone before they even spoke, and 76% admitted that the most important physical feature for making a good first impression is a smile. Outfit choices are not everything, but they’re a major factor in the impression one makes, especially on a date when most people are trying to put their best face forward.
Researchers have found that it takes less than 30 seconds to form an opinion about someone. In other words, it’s not unreasonable to claim that people can make snap judgments about traits such as trustworthiness, competence, and likeability at the speed of light based on attire. Specific items, such as a well-tailored outfit, can positively affect how someone is perceived during a date.
Studies show that 55% of first impressions are influenced by appearance, including clothing and grooming, making them crucial for creating a positive perception.
The role of color
Wearing red can enhance attraction, with studies showing it signals confidence and passion. Conversely, blue conveys trustworthiness and stability. A sports psychology study revealed that competitors in red won 55% of the bouts. When matches were close, the color had an even greater impact, leading to 62% of victories. Both male and female athletes wearing red had much higher dominance and aggression scores than those in grey or blue.
Wearing blue has other advantages. Salespersons wearing blue suits closed twice as many deals as those wearing any other color suit, a small survey among sales reps revealed.
Don’t wear a hat on a date
Up to 16% of people who suffer from thinning hair or baldness commit hatfishing, which is where someone covers up the lack of hair with a hat or another head cover in photos. It’s best to be honest right from the start, as 40% of women would stop seeing someone who ‘hatfished’ them. Few lies can be infinitely sustained, and this is definitely one that can’t.
It may be no big deal, but it erodes trust. Your date could see the hat as a sign that you could be hiding other things. If you are suffering from a receding hairline, don’t fall into the trap of weird hairstyles or combovers, either. Baldness is more common than many people suspect and is even a sign of virality. By age 35, around two-thirds of men will have experienced hair loss to some extent, and approximately 85% will have much thinner hair by the time they turn 50. Instead of struggling, own your hair loss and shave your head. Women find this attractive, including on a date, because it exudes confidence. It shows you accept yourself. Bruce Willis, Jason Statham, Vin Diesel, and Dwight Johnson have all set an example.
Clean clothes show interest and respect
Over 70% of survey participants say that clean, well-fitted attire shows respect and interest, significantly boosting dating outcomes. There are relevant statistics pertaining to the UK. Research reveals that 71% of UK adults use their washing machines even when they’re not full and throw in clothes that have only been worn once or twice.
Dress appropriately for the setting
Casual but stylish clothing works for relaxed coffee dates, while more formal attire is recommended for upscale dinners. Comfort and fit also significantly boost confidence, making the individual appear more self-assured. Research shows that wearing socially acceptable casual clothes like denim fosters perceptions of approachability and friendliness.
Putting effort into an outfit shows respect for the occasion and the person. However, authenticity is key; clothing should align with one’s personality and typical style to avoid projecting a false image.
Recap
- The role of color
- Don’t wear a head cover on a date
- Clean clothes show interest and respect
- Dress appropriately for the setting